The flip side of female exposure /boldness on TV and other media :

I once saw a video on YouTube “Teens react to Anaconda”. Anaconda is song by Nikki Minaj, it has a lot of explicit content. So in that video, a group of teenagers, from various backgrounds, both boys and girls were shown the video of that song, and there asked to share their thoughts on it.

There was a particular girl whose thoughts struck me as quite insightful. She expressed that the widespread display of women in bold and explicit content across various platforms, including advertisements, magazines, TV, and social media, contributes to a sense of entitlement among men and boys. This, she argued, manifests in the casual solicitation of explicit content from their girlfriends. She highlighted the disparity in the portrayal of nudity between men and women in media, emphasizing the frequent exposure of women’s bodies compared to the rarity of men being depicted similarly.

In relationships, she observed that this normalization of explicit content and behaviors translates into casual acts of physical affection and even disrespect. The girl questioned why such behaviors have become acceptable, attributing it to the willingness of women to participate and the lack of condemnation. She argued that dissenting voices are often labeled as outdated or orthodox, contending that this trend does not represent empowerment or boldness but, rather, constitutes a straightforward insult to women’s dig

It happens in common situations too, if a girl allows a guy to tickle her once, it may become a habit for him. Similarly, in some cases, boundaries can be crossed if a girl allows it just once. It’s important to remember that everyone’s boundaries should be respected and communication is key. It’s not okay to assume that it’s acceptable to flirt or be touchy feely without consent. Movies often portray exaggerated scenarios where misbehavior goes unpunished, but in real life, we should always strive to treat others with respect and consideration.

It’s crucial for girls to stay strong and set clear boundaries to maintain their dignity. There were girls who never allowed guys to cross those boundaries. When girls are firm, guys usually respect them. It’s important for girls to be strong and consistent in their choices to avoid compromising their dignity.

While there were some who didn’t condemn the advancement of guys, and gradually, they were taken for granted. And the mischief with them got worse everyday.

So in school or college or at workplace, if a woman keeps her guard up high always, and trusts people wisely, only then it’ll be safe for her. Then it’ll be possible for her to avoid any kind of harassment.

A thoughtful perspective was shared on Quora regarding the efficacy of punitive measures, such as castration, in addressing rape. The contributor emphasized the importance of preventive measures, suggesting that intervening at the root of the issue is essential. She posed questions about the frequency of individuals discouraging inappropriate behavior, both verbally and through corrective actions. Additionally, she touched upon the significance of setting clear boundaries in interpersonal relationships. Acknowledging the sensitive nature of the topic, she also mentioned that modest dressing could be one among several steps toward prevention, recognizing its controversial nature in public discourse.

One man asked Alexander’s sister what is the best adornment for women? She replied, the only and best adornment for a lady is her modesty and dignity. .

Looking at the society one of the great thinker’s in west wrote, “my daughter, be great but be a great woman. Never try to be a great man”

So to conclude,

1. Impact of Media on Behavior: The insightful girl in the YouTube video emphasizes how explicit content in media contributes to a sense of entitlement among men and boys, leading to casual solicitation of explicit content and disrespectful behavior in relationships.
2. Importance of Setting Boundaries: The narrative underscores the importance of women setting clear boundaries to maintain dignity, citing instances where firmness and consistency lead to respect from others, while allowing leniency may result in being taken for granted.
3. Preventive Measures Against Harassment: The discussion extends beyond personal relationships to advocate for women keeping their guard up in school, college, or the workplace, emphasizing the need for trust in people wisely to create a safer environment and avoid harassment.